Feminine Needs, Wants, & Flaws launches tonight! I’ve worked hard to get this booklet finalized, and finally am ready to begin sending out emails tonight to all the preorder customers! You can still order today, it’s not too late! I’ve written about this booklet below! Thank you to everyone who has supported this endeavor!
There are things the Lord wove into a woman that the world has tried very hard to make her ashamed of.
The need for security.
For rhythm.
For conversation.
For beauty.
For home.
For tenderness.
For stillness.
For nurture.
And there are other things we often call needs that are not needs at all.
The need to control.
To be constantly reassured.
To be understood by everyone.
To compare.
To escape.
To be seen.
These are not small things, sister.
They shape the way we speak to our husbands. The way we mother our children. The way we keep our homes. The way we handle correction. The way we receive love. The way we pray when life feels unsettled.
That is why I wrote this booklet.
“Feminine Needs, Wants, & Flaws” is a biblical reflection on the needs, desires, and distortions of womanhood.
Not because women need another voice yelling at them.
And not because we need another soft little devotional that refuses to name sin.
But because many of us know something in us has been pulled out of order.
We feel it in the home.
We feel it in our speech.
We feel it when we are tired.
We feel it when we are trying to control the atmosphere.
We feel it when we want to be cherished, but instead we become sharp.
We feel it when we long for peace, but keep reaching for the wrong thing.
A few lines from the booklet:
“A peaceful home is a blessing, but it is not our peace. A secure bank account is a comfort, but it is not our security. A supportive husband is a gift, but he is not our source. Our source should be Christ.”
“The table is one of the most ordinary holy places in a house. Not because the food is impressive. Not because the centerpiece is perfect. Because bodies gather there.”
“Shame is not the Lord’s tool. He uses conviction. He uses kindness. He uses a quiet sentence in your spirit that says, Daughter, come home.”
Inside the booklet:
Part One: What God Wove Into Her
1. The Feminine Need for Security
2. The Feminine Need for Conversation
3. The Feminine Need for Stillness
4. The Feminine Need for Beauty
5. The Feminine Need to Nurture
6. The Feminine Need for Rhythm
7. The Feminine Need for Masculine Men
8. The Feminine Need for Tenderness
9. The Feminine Need for Reverence
10. The Feminine Need for Home
11. The Feminine Need for Belonging
12. The Feminine Need for Fruitfulness
13. The Feminine Need for Softness
14. The Feminine Need for Order
15. The Feminine Need for Mercy
16. The Feminine Need for Delight
Part Two: What She Must Practice
17. The Feminine Need for Morning Anchors
18. The Feminine Need for Evening Closure
19. The Feminine Need for a Kept Table
20. The Feminine Need for Clean Speech
21. The Feminine Need for Embodied Work
22. The Feminine Need for Seasonal Living
23. The Feminine Need for Sabbath Rest
24. The Feminine Need for Older Women
25. The Feminine Need for Hidden Faithfulness
Part Three: What Sin Distorts
26. The Feminine “Need” to Subtly Control
27. The Need to Be Understood By Everyone
28. The Need to Be Reassured Constantly
29. The Need to Compare
30. The Need to Be Seen
31. The Need for Emotional Certainty
32. The Need to Fix Everyone
33. The Need to Keep Score
34. The Need for a Perfect Atmosphere
35. The Need to Escape
Part Four: Begin Again
A closing word
About the author
A note on translation
This is a **digital product** in PDF format.
You can read it on your phone, tablet, computer, or e-reader. You can also print it out, keep it in a binder, mark it up, underline it, and return to it when the house is loud and your heart feels louder.
This release is also being offered fundraiser-style.
The checkout page is preset with a preferred minimum of $10, but you can change the amount to whatever you are able or led to give.
If $10 is what you can do, receive it gladly.
If you want to give less or more and help support this ministry, this is a very practical way to get behind the work we are building.
Get Feminine Needs, Wants, & Flaws here →
Thank you for reading, praying, sharing, and helping us continue creating resources for Christian women and households who want to return to what God actually said.
P.S. Founding members, this digital product is included in your founding membership. Watch your email for delivery.
And if you preordered last week, your copy will be emailed out tonight to the email associated with your Substack account.
